War on Divorce
Why People Divorce Knowledge Base
Why do some people that divorce get all broke? you know i see my teachers and on the movies that the people get all broke when they get a divorce . why is that. Who gets the money and why they get the money.
Why do people divorce their sweethearts whom they loved? Marriage is for life. People are not angels who should be perfect. Tolerant is expected and looking at the positive side of your partner. What do you think?
Why do people say that Peyton Manning is getting a divorce? I know he's not getting a divorce.. yet.. But why do people say that he is... they say he cheats on his wife with that weather girl... or he's getting a divorce... people say that type of stuff like on topix ... or on blogs on on fourms and yet there's nothing on the news about it.. Why?? im just wondering... i really dont get the hype over peyton's personal life..
Why do so many people divorce these days? I feel like no body cherishes marriage anymore. People get divorces so fast. Why don't we just work it out instead of divorcing and taking the easy way out? Til death do us part? It's more like til we signed the papers do us part. Any thoughts?
bearing in mind half of marriages end in divorce why do people always say married men never leave their wives? Bearing in mind half of marriages end in divorce, why do people always say 'married men never leave their wives for their mistresses'?
Why do people immediately think divorce? I have noticed that many people, especially on Yahoo! Answers, resort to divorce as a knee-jerk reaction when things in their marriage goes poorly. Why do people immediately look at divorce as an option instead of trying to address the problems and work through them?
Why are people against divorce? Im doing a persuasive essay because im against divorce..but i need a few more reasons why people are against it.
Why do people divorce after decades? I work with this lady, she has been married for 25 years and is now divorcing. Why would someone be married for decades and then divorce? After 20-30 years people have been through so much with their spouse, you would think they would be happy together forever! Do you think people divorce after so long because the children are grown? Maybe cheating? Boredom? What do you think?
why people divorce after love marraige..? why people who r in true love before marraige divorce.... i mean they are in love ,they know each others soul.. they love to talk hours with each other and can,t spend time without each other.. and then few years after marraige a divorce.. or were they in a relationship just coz lust.. and once that lust got over they separate... hey this is not my situtaion i am single .. just asking outta curiosity
Why do people seem to divorce so fast? I don't get it why does it seem people are divorcing their spouses like it is a fashionable thing? Also what would you get divorced over? (cheating, lying, stealing) Personally the only way I would divorce someone I love is if they have hurt my child or me (severely for me).
Why did the people that you know get a divorce? Everyone has theories on why people get divorced. Everyone seems to know the divorce rate is climbing here in the USA and at an all time high. So, of the people you know that got divorced, why did they get divorced?
Why do people feel divorce is better for the kids than a relationship thats not perfect? Every comment to marriage questions on here = divorce. 1. Not happy in relationship > divorce 2. Tired of your husband not lifting the toilet seat > divorce him 3. Wife has bad morning breathe > divorce her Every solution people give here is divorce, not even thinking about how bad that affects the kids too. Then people wonder why the divorce rate is so high? Good comments, though most are based on EXTREMELY bad relationships, not the ones I was speaking on. If your relation is to the extreme, let it go. But if you plan on divorcing after a few arguments, then you shouldn't get married and have kids in the first place.
Why do some people scolded others for wanting to get a divorce? I mean how can you tell somebody that getting is wrong? You don't know the whole situation so how you you determine that the couple need counseling if in all actually divorce is in the best interest. The spouse could be abusive, a gambler, cheater, or drug user. So why say you shouldn't get married when sometimes the person didn't see these things coming?
Why do the people in USA have almost a highest rate of divorce and law suits? Please offer your answer to this question through your wildest imagination. As we know, the people in USA probably consume and send a highest amount of flowers, greeting cards for almost every occasions to each other. However, we still probably have a highest rate of divorce, law suits,..... in the world. What does that mean to you? I will post my view to share with all in 2 months. Have a nice day and a wonderful holiday.
Why do people get divorced? Why are the divorce rates different in different cultures and countries? Expectations of marriage too high? Do they pick the wrong person- if so, why didn't they know it was the wrong person while they were dating or living together? Do they not adjust when their partners change as they get older? Are they selfish and cheat? Lack of communication? Why didn't they learn to communicate while they were dating? What do you think?
Why is the only advice people can give here is get a divorce ? I mean who is posting here, 15 year olds who think money grows on trees ? Do people on here realize that getting a divorce might mean you have to blow the money your child was supposed to go to college with on a divorce ? Or that it is already hard enough to scrape by on 2 paychecks ?
Why do people like Hillary even though she is too weak to divorce a cheating husband? It baffles me how some people like her. Shrieking Panda, It is my business if she is running for president of the United States. I have the right to know why she is a wimp. Would she act like a door mat towards our enemies?
Why do people have such a disapproval of a married person dating while separated & going through a divorce? Even when they have been living separately and the new SO had nothing to do with the pending divorce? Do not assume reconciliation is possible.
Why does Mildred send people to the Marriage and Divorce section? WTF does "Mildred Sent Me" mean and why am I seeing this at the bottom of so many answers in this forum? Anyone know? Val- I did a search too and I got nothing. The best answer I saw so far said it is a secret phrase that undercover sex addicts use to identify themselves. I am going with that if I can't find something better, LOL!
Why do so many people have anger for people who divorce? Why do they copy & paste biased studies that say boys raised by single parents are more likely to become rapists from displaced anger or girls are more likely to become promiscuous when raised by a single parent? I've also seen studies that show women who have good relationships with their fathers are more likely to become promiscuous as well. I don't get it.
Why people get married when divorce is inevitable ?? Why people especially guys marry. Marriage is a lose lose situation for males. If you are listening cancel your marriage -- Marriage is a big mistake !( for guys)
Why do people keep saying that divorce is best for the children in a non abusive relationship when statistical data that compares children from divorced and non divorced families clearly shows that divorce is probably only best for the party that wants the divorce. Yet people keep hiding behind their children (I do it for my children etc.). Note Iam not referring to divorcing a violent or narcotics abusing spouse.
Why are people on here So pro-divorce? I've noticed that everyone on Yahoo Answers seems to be extremely Pro-divorce. Perhaps because everyone are liberal? Lack of morals, religion? Personally, I believe divorce is an extremely immature thing and its for people who give up easily and are not willing to fight for what they need to protect. Some people need a divorce, like when adultery is the issue. But abuse, and other things can be worked out. Why do YOU think divorce is the big obsession in the marriage/divorce/family/relationships sections? Right on Valerie! My husband did beat me, and beat me alot. And told everyone else I did it to him first. I'm still pro marriage. My husband and I married at 20 (he one month before his 20th) and have a child. We were doing great, but his mother is controlling of him (and all of her kids). He is also controlled by his friends, severely. We fought, physical, words, everything. I filed for divorce but am going to cancel it. Because I am a Christian. let him file and let God deal with HIM. Not me.
Why do people divorce? I thought people were supposed to be mature enough to work out any problem be it the perceived problem of sex with other people, being treated like crap, etc. When people get curious and decide to have some fun on the side why does it have to end in divorce? Shouldn't adults be smart enough to include each other in these sex fantasies or realities? But no, people will do the dumb move and end up in financial ruin. If you made the mistake of marriage, at least you should be able to negotiate a few deals every now and then to keep things interesting without having to resort to divorce. Think about it. When you promise each other your entire lifetime, do you think that you will not get bored with each other after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 years. Tell me what deals you have negotiated with your significant other throughout your marriage. All responses are welcome.
Why do a lot of people from India use the Marriage and Divorce section like a psychic service? i.e: "When will I get married?" "How long will my studies last?" "Who will I marry?" "What will be my wedding date and first initial of my spouse?" Seriously. I want to know.
why is it ok for someone to make false statements agianst innocent people just because its a divorce hearing? why cant their be some sorta punishment when the man lies about the mother of the women who want to divorce him and he gets away with it? how come noone does anything about it, it is still lying in a court of law?
why do so many people divorce these days? I think its because most people only go for looks these days, so there complety happy in the beginning because they have the "super hot" boy/girl but after being together for a long time and the honeymoon stage has passed and sex isnt that interesting anymore you finally can see that person for what they really are, and they realize they don't like eachother. having the super hot girlfriend doesn't pay of in the end..... i dont get guys.
Why do people with Aspergers Syndrome have a higher divorce rate? I have started dating a woman, 28 years old, that told me she has Aspergers. I have read some into it online. I really like her, but am kind of cautious about getting into this relationship any more seriously untill I know more about this condition.
Why do people discredit legally separated people, living as singles with divorce filed that choose to DATE!? Some couples have long been disconnected emotionally, physically & intimately before the ink is dry so why the pony and dog show if they choose to date others. Why should a person hold up their life for "paperwork" I know what is morally right but, what is common and realistic by today's standards? 2nd just because one partner has not started to date or chooses not to for their own reason does that mean the person that does seek to date should hold up his or her life for the other person?
Why do people go through divorce? I am the son of a divorced couple and it is a very touchy subject that I don't bring up with my parents. This is a question only for one of a divorced couple that have been together for more than 10+ years and have had a child. What is your main reason for divorce?
Why do pro gay marriage people keep bringing up the divorce rate between heterosexuals? That's not a logical argument for gay marriage.
Why do people who cheat/divorce tend to have bad attitudes? I've noticed that the friendliest people tend to be monogamous or at least very secure in their relationships. Has anyone else noticed this? Why is this the case?
Why are people so quick to divorce nowadays? Ar e the people getting weaker and pettier? I see couples who stick it out and have been married for 25 years..Nowadays these couples jst cant seem to listen to their vows they gave.I dont get this generation.and Im only 24 !...
why do people think a divorce is fair, when most of the time the lady gets way more then the man? why do women still cry wolf, and think they need more and more in divorces!
Why do people remarry after they get a divorce? I can understand the first marriage but why again I'm sorry if my marriage fails I will never remarry
Why do people win money in divorce cases? Never been married and not close to getting married so...I have no idea!
Why do people post in Marriage and Divorce when it has nothing to do with it? MY ANSWER: Because it seems like only teenagers post and answer in the singles and dating. End of story now stop complaining!
Why are people more willing to divorce than to get thru it?? I saw a woman ask 2 questions why divorce and why not to, why are there TWICE as many answers not to than to?? It's like Divorce is this unlimited get out of jail free card and no one is there to win.
Why are some people so concerned about whether or not Jon and Kate will divorce? It is pitiful when people are entertained by the problems of celebrities' personal and/or marital problems...good grief..
Why Famouse People divorce so fast? I just cant understand why they divorce so fast
Why do people decide to marry when the statistics shows that 50% of all marriages end IN DIVORCE? According to the statistics 50% of all first marriages and even higher % of second marriages end in Divorce. So knowing this fact, what makes people still want to marry and why? is it just the foolish optimisim that it wont happen to them?
Why do you think so many people divorce these days? The divorce rate these days is very high, something like 40% I heard. Why do you think that it is so high? Do you think it could be blamed on actual divorce itself? i.e. people have troubles in their marriage and instead of working on their problems, just figure it is easier to divorce and start over? I am interested to hear everyone's own thoughts on why you think so many people divorce these days.
What was the reason behind your divorce? Why do people blame others for all of their mistakes? When do you know a relationship is over?
Why would two people who are friends get a divorce? They dont have kids together, but they still are on talking terms, one helps the other with taxes and the other says they were almost perfect. I only know one of them. My question is what circumstances would cause this? Only thing i can think of is excessive arguing, but divorce??
Why do some people question my divorce from my ex husband? Many YA regulars know who I am talking about. What would you do if you saw your Hubby on To Catch A Predator naked in the kitchen of a young boys house. http://www.poetv.com/video.php?vid=18906 Look at the questions he is posting..can you blame me for filing for a divorce? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuaHIN0FSKbRswEQllnq.MPY7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20090130160338AA5iAnY
Why do people with power and money seem to divorce more? Do rich guys, especially the rich and famous ones, get around more?
what is the common denominator as to why people would file for a divorce? in a any given relationship, one should not expect or compare. the reason i brought this to your attention, because i see lots of people comparing and expecting. this KILL the relationships. If true love exist....everything is compensated.
If marriage is so sacred to straight people then why is divorce so prevalent? Wheres the screaming mimi's protesting divorce?
Why do people need "time" after a divorce? My old ex boyfriend just recently got divorced and says he doesn't want to date anyone right now. What's the big deal, they obviously couldn't work things out, why does he need to be alone for a while?
Why do people get a divorce..its supposed to be for better or for worse!!? I love you...many people take that lightly. What changes when you get married? I want to know whats the difference when your not married..i know that most couples get a joint account..but what causes them to get a divorce. Im not married..im just want to know why people get married and then a year or a few months later they are divorced and act like they hate eachother. Violence and Adultery are understandable.
Why do people who are ONLY single and dating come to the marriage and divorce section? I find this very annoying cause the marriage and divorce section is for people with REAL problems...Why dont these people just go to the singles and dating section instead where they belong.
Why do people think it is OK to get a divorce for different reasons, but fail to see it is OK for brain damage to get an annulment?? (If the person becomes incapasitated)....I think brain damage would be worst....and i do feel it is ok to get an annulment...what's your take on this???
Why are people collaborating if this only leads to divorce? Why is it becoming such a big trend? I have been wondering about this for a long time,, I was taking a Psychology class called Marriage and Family Relations. I remember my professor who was also a psychologist tell our class that the majority of people who collaborate before marriage end up being divorced. If this is true that collaborating with your significant other only leads to divorce then why are so many people collaborating? I mean I know so many people who are doing it. I know people who are collabortaing in their twenties and I know people who are collabortaing in their late thirties. Is it really true that collabortaing with your significant other leads to divorce the majority of the time? If so, then why is it such a big trend in our society today? When I mean collaborating, I mean cohabiting sorry about the spelling mistake.
why do people praise Hillary for forgiving Bill when the Bible says adultry is grounds for divorce? Why do people put importance in Hillary being a forgiving wife? The Bible says adultry is grtounds for divorce. To tolerate his behavior certainly dont make her a very strong woman>
Why do some people become so bitter after divorce and wants others to be as miserable as they are? I said some and not all, but it seems that some people stay angry at the world after they are jilted and seem to be determined to live in their misery and attempt to bring others down with them. Some of them seem to hate to see happy marriages. Yet some dust themself off and move on.
What is the divorce rate in America? Why do white people and everybody else suck at marriage? I know why, and it is because Americans can never get along. Also, when 1 spouse starts a fit, the other backfires trying to prove his or her point. It is such a pathetic situation, and what is more pathetic is that peple think they always have the right 1 when in fact they do not. DATING DOES NOT WORK!!
Why do people resort to divorce to solve their marital problems? The people who really suffer is not them but their children.How selfish isn't it?
Why do people use the smallest excuses for divorce? What is the point in getting married if you're willing to drop everything if someone doesn't do the dishes right or forgets to take out the trash? Isn't divorce, unless it has to do with unfaithfulness, a little on the selfish side? I mean, when you marry someone you are obviously in love with them. Why would you let that fade because of the little things? Just wondering. Read a lot of questions and answers today about this and it's kind of sad how quickly people opt for divorce. Whatever happened to love?
Why are there so many young people on the Marriage and Divorce site? I thought you had to be 13 to be on Yahoo answers and yet a 10 year just answered a question from a 12year old. Go figure? But the questions they ask are not related to marriage divorce. I know divorce effects them too.
Why do people when problems come up in their marriages look to divorce instead of marriage counceling? Just curious why people when they have problems in their marriage like falling out of love with each other, instead of actually trying to work at it, and find those things that made them fall in love with each other in the first place just decide to divorce? Marriage is hard work, but I think it's much more rewarding if you try to work at resolving those issues.
Why do single people come to the marriage and divorce section with their petty problems? The marriage and divorce section is for people with REAL problems...They should go to the singles and dating section where they belong.
Why would people living together before marriage, cause a divorce after you got married? I know the statistic that "people who live together before marriage, are double as likely to get divorced once they're married". WHY is that though??
Why are thousands and thousands of people allowing themselves to divorce? In the formerly Christian countries such as UK, USA, Europe, Southern Africa, South America, etc, divorce is on the increase. Why have societies allowed this when it is obvious it is not the best thing for children?
Why are people living in poverty more likely to divorce? but also, more importantly, why poverty does not contirbute to high divorce
Why do some people think that divorce is the answer to everything? It seems to me that some people offer divorce as the only possible solution to couples who are experiencing problems in their marriage. It is not the first and only option married people have!! It should be the last resort. It is extremely painful, and damaging especially when there are children involved. The same way people should consider marriage with all its implications, the same way they should consider divorce. It is costly psychologically and materially!!! So, please, do not just advise people to get a divorce or leave their partner whenever they cry for help. Are there lots of happy divorcees out there? What do you think? To inquisitor: I am actually divorced. I know first hand what I am talking about. Yes, my divorce made me happier, i do exist as a person now; but my children are miserable, and it breaks my heart to have put them througth so much pain. I exist. Was it worth it? I don't know, because I am still not happy. Which means that there are always going to be something I won't have. Having said that, I wouldn't advise anybody to remain in an abusive relationship! All I meant was that some people think of that solution just as one might throw away an item with has been damaged because they can buy a new one. Sometimes it's worth fixing it, because it means so much to us, even a bit broken.
Why do people love to generalize about divorce & custody laws? I know that divorce and custody laws in the US differ so greatly from state to state. Why do people love giving the wrong advice to people on YA? I thought I was wrong to deny my ex-husband my address but only telephonic communication is dictated in our FL divorce decree and custody because the distance is greater than 350 miles it's different than in-state FL cases too. He does not have the explicit rights to do what he's done in the state we were divorced in. Ok, not a real question but gosh I look forward to my ex-husband falling flat on his face in court soon.....
Why do people frown upon high divorce rates? -A divorce signifies freedom of living life on one's term. -We have a high divorce rate because are a progressive nation. -Studies have shown that children from divorced parents become more independent and successfull in life. -Divorces are very rare in third world nations and primitive cultures. Divorces are healthy. It's time the world should stop ostracizing our high divorce rates.
the divorce rate in aerica is at an all time high,why do people marry for the wrong reason? I can change him or her? He or she got money? The sex is off the chain? well, we been together this long? We're too scared to break up. We're not getting any younger. All these reasons seem to come back and bite people in the azz why is that? in america
Why are so many people posting dating questions in the marriage and divorce section? There is a specific category for single and dating!
Why do people who are married for a long time divorce? I'm talking about people who have been together for a long time. Longer than the 5-7 average. Like 10-15 years, and often you'll hear about people who have been married 20-25 years getting divorced. Why? Has this happened to you? I'd think that if you made it to the 20 year mark then you have it made, but that's been proven wrong. What happens in these relationships that make people just up and leave?
Why do people feel derailed after a divorce? I feel derailed after my divorce from my ex-husband. I feel like my career has gone backwards. I have also suffered emotionally in that I have had a hard time accepting the divorce and learning to be alone. I also feel bad about where my life is compared to others my age. They are married, settled and have children. My child lives with my ex-husband and he has not followed the visitation rules. I basically feel like I have failed in every aspect of my life - personally, professionally and family. How can I pick up the pieces and put my life back together? I look at other married couples and families and feel bad. My ex-husband was abusive, controlling and manipulative. I know that I can not live with him. Yet, I feel bad at where my life is.
with the divorce rate in the us being 60%(i believe) why do people keep getting married? divorce rate 60%, tons of people cheating on spouses, children without parents, financial ruin, why do people still get married? please no insults or snide remarks, i am just seeking information. would like some input on pros and cons of marriage or good things and bad things. would you buy stock that keeps failing, would you drink poison if you knew it would kill you? it just seems crazy to me. seems like people looking for an ideal that does not exist or that is no longer revelant. thanks everyone!
Why do so many people say that divorce is the easy way out? How could anyone say that divorce is the easy way out? It is not easy at all. It is a huge decision, especially when there are children involved. After 15 years of trying to get my husband to be faithful, honest, get off the drinking and drugs, cheating, stealing... I filed for divorce. People who blatently say "it is the easy way out" have no idea at all the work people have put INTO their marriage before filing for divorce.
Why is it that people feel that when they have conflict in their marriage, they think divorce all they can do? Why is it when people have a little trouble in their marriages that they feel that it's not worth working it out, that they have to jump right to divorce withouth even trying to work things out? I personally feel that if you have problems in your marriage, try marriage counceling first. Hey Leaping Lizzard, I'm not talking about myself with the question, but I'm saying marriages in general. It seems like someone else said that people want an easy button in marriage to have an easy way out when things are not going their way.
Why do people still get married today, if statistic predict that the marriage will end in divorce? Isn't marraige something from the 20th century. what about trial marraiges for 5 years. the marriage license expires and can be renewed upon new vows. no more divorces.
Why are people to quick to divorce? I have noticed A LOT (almost everyone) suggests getting a divorce at the drop of a hat. Why is that? Does anyone believe in making it work anymore? Don't people believe in the vows they took? Please tell me your view on this!! I personally don't think it's because people get married too fast or too young. I married at 18 after a year and a half of dating. We are still together and going stong. We have been through hell and back but we are still together and happier now than ever before. Why aren't their more people that feel the same way I do? I think the "married too young" answer is a cop out. I'm not talking about people that are abused!!!! I'm talking about the "I'm not sure I love him anymore" and the "there's a guy that's interested in me should I leave my husband" type of things.........
Why do married people stay living in the same house in different bed rooms and not file for divorce until the? house sells and they can split the money? I hear of this more every day and wonder how many people are finding them selves in this situation. The marriage is over and they both agree and yet they remain in the same house? Why?
Why do people immediately think DIVORCE? I see question on here asking whether or not a person should divorce their spouse. A lot of times it's for really silly and childish reasons. Of course, no one should have to endure extreme situations like physical/verbal abuse, infidelity etc. But why is it so easy to say divorce? I thought our wedding vows meant more.
Why do people give up hope for themselves, their spouse, and their families so often & get a divorce? Today so many marriages end in divorce. Why do you think people are increasingly quick to throw in the towel? Where has the love and the hope and the commitment gone? Some facts and myths about divorce: http://health.discovery.com/centers/loverelationships/articles/divorce.html
Why do people go for divorce ? Why People are you going for divorce. what would be reason ? how to they can avoid it ?
divorce, why do people go through with it? i dont think its nessasry to divorce a person as long as they didnt commit adultry. cause i believe that u mary for all the right reasons, and your only devoted to that one person. and u become one. i think its funny how in hollywood they dont stay togeather more then 48 hours, that tells me they dont have time for each other, well if you knew that why get togeather at all? its a fad. and its funny how they dont get togeather with plane janes or average joes, but skip to other celebs, because they want to be noticed more. any way i believe that divorce aint nessecsary if u love the person. so why do people do it? cause every one knows if u have kids they r in the middle of it all and it affects them and thats who i feel sorry for the most.
Why most people encouraging divorce & despise and blame those mistresses or 2nd wife? I do not understand why there are people could not be understanding over issues of loving with married man or becoming 2nd wife is to be blame or despise by social? If you think divorce is a good solution for those pitiful wives to start afresh, then you are totally wrong and selfish coz encouraging people into divorce is a great sin (unless being abused or violent by husband). My husband has two wives and I'm the second and do not feel ashamed coz he is responsible in taking care both families. I'm not a home wrecker coz I would never encourage him for divorce or deserting the 1st family. To those legally wives - do you think your marriage would be everlasting and guarantee your husband will be faithful to you? This world is too full of excitements and irresible. If your husband has a mistress or 2nd wife, who do you think should be blame? Mistress?? No.. is yourself coz you create the chance for them to have relationship. Therefore, pls do not prejudice on mistresses. 8 years marriage or more is nothing to a couple coz you will never able to predict what will happen in future. If you are so confidence to have a smooth marriage till death do you part, I congratulate you heartedly and full of respect in those faitful husbands. Bear in mind - you may be legal and has a complete picture of family, you will never beat or capture your husband's fickle minded. Afterall husband is a human being. Be open and do not think negatively. Two wives are too common.. it maybe have 4-5 wives if your husband is loaded. Doesn't matter your husband is overloaded or penniless, if he wish to have a discreet relationship, would you able to control? But one thing for sure, a penniless husband will definately stick to a wife coz he himself can't even survive for living. Loving somebody is not a sin and you can't fight over the fate. Why someone like you (perhaps an educated & knowledgable) like to use your emotional to despise & voice out nasty remarks? Such way is only downgrading yourself.. Sorry to say.
Given the divorce rate, domestic violence, and affairs rate. Why do people waste their lives no sex b4 marrige Given the divorce rate, domestic violence, and affairs rate. Why do people waste their lives no sex b4 marriage instead of living life to the full and if and only if they meet someone specail worth sticking with then do so. OH AND DONT BOTHER WITH THE STD/AID ARGUMENT.. THATS ONLY FOR THOSE UNEDUCATED IN SEX ED AND CONDOMS MOST LIKLY MANY WAITING TO GET MARRIED WILL END UP THOSE WHO CAN ONLY HUG A CAT AGED 50 STILL WITH THEIR MUM HAVING HAD NO LIFE AT ALL. QUOTE RESPECTING ONE'S SELF. is not wasting your life and getting all you can out of life be its sexaul shenaigans, travelling the world, skydiving... its not letting people bully and treat you bad etc. Its hitting someone who calls you a slut or whore as you want some affection in your life quote On the contrary the very things you mention concerning the failings of marriage and the violence of mankind are the result living life without God IF YOU SUPPORT GOD AND THE CHURCH YOU SUPPORT THIS Abusing, raping, and ripping the babies from the arms of 30,000 girls up to just 10 years ago http://www.cinemaguild.com/sexin.pdf http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.html http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2003/04/04/1048962932185.html http://www.nac1.bravehost.com/magdalene/magdalene_laundries.html http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/drama/tv/sinners/index.shtml http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdalen.html http://www.torrentspy.com/torrent/397040/The_Magdalene_Sisters http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.html http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/ http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/drama/sinners/interviews/annemarie.shtml Origonal documentry available from http://cgi.ebay.com/SEX-IN-A-COLD-CLIMATE-DVD-DOCUMENTRY-REG-0_W0QQitemZ6437066430QQcategoryZ617QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180406.stm http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressreleases/stories/2003/10_october/09/panorama_holy_city http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressreleases/stories/2003/10_october/09/panorama_holy_city.shtml http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3147672.stm http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180174.stm CHURCH SUPPORT FOR CHILD RAPE http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23369148-details/Pope+'led+cover-up+of+child+abuse+by+priests'/article.do http://observer.guardian.co.uk/international/story/0,6903,1020400,00.html http://observer.guardian.co.uk/international/story/0,6903,1020400,00.html INQUISITION http://members.lycos.co.uk/witchen/torchermethods.html http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30200-1254780,00.html http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2007130233,00.html NASTY TREATMENT OF GIRLS http://www.buzzpatrol.com/links/polish-high-school-student-expelled-for-playboy-shoot WWW.EVILBIBLE.COM 4) Laws of Rape (Deuteronomy 22:28-29 NLT) If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her. What kind of lunatic would make a rape victim marry her attacker? Answer: God. 5) Death to the Rape Victim (Deuteronomy 22:23-24 NAB) If within the city a man comes upon a maiden who is betrothed, and has relations with her, you shall bring them both out of the gate of the city and there stone them to death: the girl because she did not cry out for help though she was in the city, and the man because he violated his neighbors wife. It is clear that God doesn't give a damn about the rape victim. He is only concerned about the violation of another mans "property". the god is good argument wont wash and as said there are condoms and the pill
Why do people denigrate marriage but then complain about the high divorce rate? I've asked a similar question before, but I still don't get it. It seems to me that men loathe the idea of getting married because they don't want to have sex with the same woman for the rest of their lives. Doesn't that mean that those guys just lack imagination? And what about women who don't want to get married? What is their reasoning? Why do people view marriage as prison? Isn't it only as confining as you allow it to be? What else? Uh . . . oh yeah! That commercial that Hyundai has about commitment . . . don't like your job? Get a new one. Don't like your nose? Get a new one. Don't like your spouse? Get a new one. Isn't THAT the reason that marriages fail and the divorce rate is so high? It's not because marriage is the problem. It's people who don't understand marriage that's the problem. Who doesn't get that marriage is a lifelong commitment? That people change during marriage. That "'til death do us part" really means until death. Gah! (yes, i'm ranting.)
Why is it that so many people in this day & age think the answer to marital problems is divorce? I can't help but notice that the first answer for most of these questions regarding problems in a marriage boils down to things like "Get a divorce" or "leave" or "kick them out" or "give an ultimatum". When people take their marriage vows, they vow "For better or worse", so why is everybody so ready to call it quits (or to tell somebody else to) when "worse" comes along? Life is NOT a fairytale and nobody is perfect...
Why do people "ask" for a divorce? Is this just an expression, or do people who want a divorce really believe they need to ask some kind of permission? Do they further believe that if the spouse says, "No," then they can't get a divorce? I would never divorce my wife, but if I were going to, hypothetically, I imagine it would be an announcement, not a question.
Married/Divorce only!!! Why? Do some people are more fortunate and luckier than others???? Some marriages, turned out to be very successful and lasting, while some other marriages turn out to be very unsuccessful and horrible, thus resulting sometimes in a divorce or separation. I do not understand WHY some couples live a good successful relationship while others are not that successful in their relationships. WHY IS IT LIKE THIS??? Is this part of life, that everything and everyone's luck is different from each other or something???? Sometimes, I feel so unfortunate and unlucky as a husband in general with a horrible wife. Till tis very day, I always dream of a much better woman in my life. I am 40 yrs old and been married for 15 long years. I am positively sure, that I married the wrong woman in my life, but now its too late. I am suffering the consequnces. I only stay because of my kiddos. I feel trap in a tight security prison forever, a unhappy husband with a horrible wife in general.
Why are people so quick or not so quick to divorce. Including myself. Marriage is overrated!? After 3 months of marriage, I am filing for divorce. Everything was fine for the most part before we got married. Now he thinks that because im his wife I have to give him money when he asks for it (which is often).Hes a pathological lier as well. I just don't understand marriage, I thought its forever, but so many people are getting a divorce......seems like marriage is not what it used to be and that its a BAD thing. I knew he was a liar prior to marrying, I can deal with the lying. I can not live my life putting in 100% of my money and him 0%. Its like im his ATM matchine. He never asked me for money before, but now that were married, he believes that as his wife that is my obligation to supply him with ENDLESS AMOUNTS OF MONEY
Why the high divorce rate?.Do people expect to much? Or dream it to be one way only for it to change and they become unable to shift emotionally?..Divorce was so taboo 100 years ago and now it seems to be a popular trend..why?? I want to marry for the second time but I want it to go forever and then some..my love wants the same.
Why does people divorce? Does it matter? The divorce rate is getting higher. Why? Should we prevent this?
why are people on this site so quick to jump to divorce? I asked a question pertaining to dealing with rude in-laws and was told to get a divorce! Luckily I am not a gullible schmuck who is going to follow EVERY word of advice given to me, but it makes me wonder is this area filled with pro-divorce/anti-marriage people or is it just filled with trolls?
Why do people have to pay for if they divorce? And why is it that its always the husband who pay the wive during divorce??
With the divorce rate at 50%, why do people still want to get married? It's a curious thing It's a curious thing, that bond, And of it I used to be very fond. But now I look at it a new way, And I almost....I dread the day. I see why it fails, it's obvious, And 50% say it's not so fabulous. What a pledge, think about it! The rationale just doesn't fit. Don't get me wrong, 50% work out, I wonder, what's the fuss about? Perhaps it's disney, fantasy land, But wow, it's such a huge demand. With such a low success rate, Why do people still participate? Is it because they really want to? Or is it just what they 'should' do? Although almost half of them fail, There's still half that do prevail. Over which half should one ponder? This is what I wonder, as I wander. As I wander, down a divided path, One that splits, the world in half. So really, why do people do it? I guess i've lost my desire to marry but I want to regain it and don't know why...
Why does divorce have to involve so many people? I left my husband in February. Now I am battling him, his family, my family and many of our mutual friends from their lies, fears and assumptions brought to the court, which has resulted in me losing custody of our 4 1/2 year-old son. Why do all of these other people feel they have an interest and consequence in how my husband, myself and our son lives our lives?
Why do mother-in-laws get INVOLVED in a divorce between two other people??? should we tell her to "butt out?" wasn't it the married couple CHOICE TO Get a divorce???? WHY is it any of her business.???..should i say that to her??? or just keep my mouth shut....( most of the time i keep my mouth shut, but then i fume inside)....what to do???
Why do people including Christians want to make Homosexuality any worse than Fornication/Adultry/Divorce? For example, I have a 20 year old niece who is attending college and I know that her boyfriend and her have sex.They're not married! However,I'm her uncle,I've struggled with homosexual tendencies,I'm not proud of it.I gave my life to Jesus Christ.....but yet so many people time and time again refer to me as gay...homo....weirdo.....I'm so sick of it......but yet all of them and most people have had pre-marital sex....adultrous thoughts.......divorce....broken marriages....please advise????????
why people take divorce in old age? You provide me the best answer as you said, How they want to spend it happy. How can someone be so happy while living seprate? What happen if they got sick? Who will take care them. What happen the kids how they be so happy while they have a two thanksgiving or christmas. I don,t think thats the right answer and I am not looking for that. I want more deep. Why Why and Why?
why do people think that after a divorce you still need to be friends? after divorce my ex wants me to sit down with her have coffee and talk about the kids, work, and what is going on with each other. this i dont understand i got a divorce to not be around her, all i care about is my kids. i spend as much time as i can with them!
Why do people say "I do" when they get married and then years later divorce rather than work to make it better I don't understand why someone would say I love You, so much so that THEY decide THEY want to spend the rest of THEIR life (FOREVER) with that ONE person and then years down the road have problems (like ALL marriages do) & rather than really working on the issues, just giving up b/c its easier or they find someone else "better". There is no perfect person. Everyone has problems. Do people really even love each other enough? I love my husband so much that I would go through hell and back (tho I havent yet) to make things right with us unless there was infidelity but most people see "irreconcilable differences" as an answer for "why" they terminated a marriage when in reality its really "I didnt care anymore to put the effort toward fixing whatever problem we had so I am just going to cut my losses". Why do people get married & think things are going to be all roses & when they aren't, THAT'S IT. DO SOCIETY A FAVOR AND DON'T REMARRY BECAUSE THE CYCLE ONLY CONTINUES. Oh & I am not dissing marriage. I love marriage. I just don't understand why people don't try hard enough. That's all I am getting at. Please don't comment rudely about my philosophical view of marriage. I really want to know why regarding my question. I didnt post this question to spark anger in anyone about what they think I am "really" saying. Simply stated, I am pro-marriage & pro-happiness & its sad that so many marriages end when they didn't have too. If people change thats fine, but people can change & still be married. Noone completely stays the same over the years the same as when they first met but to divorce b/c "they are going in different directions, or they change or it wasn't working out", that's b/c they didnt love the person enough in the beginning to sustain all of life's changes which includes people. Marriage is growing with someone through those changes and getting through the bumps. Like I said, people don't wont to really exert the energy it takes to fix things. 1st Time Mamma - Nice to know I am not alone. How awesome to hear someone else echo the same thoughts I have. We are 2 lucky women. And your thoughts were very much appreciated.
why do people w/bad relationship experience (divorce, never married) always want to give relationship advice? why is it, whenever you're in a relationship people (divorcees, spinsters, etc) always give unsolicited advice on how to get a man/please a man/keep a man?
WHY DO PEOPLE SAY that ADULTERY is an OK REASON TO DIVORCE IN THE BIBLE when it is NOT TRUE? In Mark 10:9 Jesus states, "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." No one is ever to separate a husband and wife. And by the way, there are NO SCRIPTURAL GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE. In Matthew 5:32, Jesus said, "But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery." Carefully notice that Jesus never gave anyone permission to divorce because of adultery. What Jesus said is that a man would not be responsible for causing his wife to commit adultery, if she was ALREADY committing adultery. I am not saying that I agree with it or don't or even that I am religious. All of you justifying your adultery or divorce should stop. What I am saying is that anyone who uses this to justify their actions is misquoting the ACTUAL text. (Not some new fangled version to make everyone feel ok.
why do some people say that brad left jen when it was actually jen that filed the divorce from brad so why ? why the comments congtratulating brad for leaving jen when JEN was the one that filed for divorce? angelina is a whore! angelina is a trannie, i dont consider that hot
Why most of people know the answer to their question when it comes to marriage ,divorce problems?But they ...? All what I,m trying to say: People in general knows when they are breaking their own marriage over some one who trays to treat them nice momentarily. In fact, this is happening as we speak. When you know" you are wrong" what ,s the point you tray to make it sounds that your "spouse is the one violating the principals and rules of the marriage. Do a big favor to your self today . _Try not to be a such a devious.deceitful,divisive person.Remember! " what it goes around it comes around" The fact of the matter, when you initiate a problem you still always can tell. Because you are a sane.person .as you know why you never want to give you wallet away. Also, You should be able to tell about your self what type person" you are".If, however, you don't know who you are at this point in time.Then, you harry and spend a Little while with your self for the reason to form an opinion about your self before you make that matter worst.Having a momentarily good time is not the adequate solution ...
Why are people so close minded when it come to relationships(marriage & divorce)? People get so caught up in what they think is perfect that they for get to live and let live. My question is why are we so quick to give up and not want to accept inperfections and faults of our loved ones?
Why is it when you get a divorce people seem to think they need to take sides? I mean divorce happens every day and what's the point to dividing friends or family? Has this happened to anyone else? I took the only side that mattered which was mine. I still will not listen to anyone bad mouth or put my ex down nor will I myself as we had a good marriage for a long time but it had just run it's course. I have no regrets but no desire to be friends either.
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