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How to avoid a divorce because of a minor affair? I got genital wart, nothingh serious and allready taken care of, but still on treatment. It was acquired not by sexual penetration but it was by skin to skin contact. She hasn't been infected yet (maybe never). It was just a rub body massage with a naked woman. What to tell to my wife? truth or there is some believable explanation I can give to avoid fight or divorce? I mean it is not an affair where you meet always a friend or someone else, it was just a sexual massage and I never thought it was going to have that sort of consequences. Men and women's point of view welcome. It seems I got confused about the infection name.....sorry about that, english is not my mothers language. The correct name is "molluscum contagiosum".
Best way to avoid divorce details? I'm in the middle of a divorce and live in a small town. I also happen to own my own business so I am in constant communication with customers. My question is how do I avoid being asked nosy questions about my divorce?
How to avoid divorce? How to avoid divorce if we have differences on how to educate our kids and house keep?
Avoid divorce hearing in court? both my wife and me agreed to divorce and my 2 child custody belongs to me (husband). To avoid to the court hearing, what should i say on the petition of legal custody of children to? and what form do it need to attach with?
what are the ways to avoid divorce??? My previous question (future of marriages) prompted me to ask this question. Everyone knows that no matter what the divorce rate is today successful marriages rate has always been much much higher that divorce rate...Doesnt that tell us that there are ways to avoid divorce?? what do u think a couple should do before and after marriage to avoid divorce?
Things you can do to avoid divorce? What are some things you can do to avoid divorce so that things are more on your favor to stay married?
I have a problem and want to avoid divorce ... help !? I love my wife; she is younger than me, beautiful and has a great sense of humor. But when she gets mad she starts insulting, beating me and saying terrible things. This is my 8th time that she slaps me in the face or hit me hard with a bat when she gets upset. Every time we receive help from friends, physiologist, she always talks the most awful things about me instead of being at my side. We have been into 4 counseling sessions and the 4 therapist's advice is to get away from her since she is violent and doesn’t respect... I am trying to avoid divorce and she doesn’t want to get help even though she admit the aggression problem. Now she threat me of comiting suicide.. im going crazy... it seems that the only thing that worries her is being back at her mom’s house or having to work since I provided her with everything. I don’t want to sound as a dork but I am just trying to save this marriage. I just dont know how to handle this and need advice from serious users please. Everytime I decide for separation she acts like an angel from heaven until the next comfrontation ... she just transformed into evil ... what should I do.??
How can i avoid divorce ? I am on the brink of divorce with my wife. Problem is I still love her and she too does, but her pain is heavier on her love, which she has ceased to express. We had some problems in the past, but not that big to separate, however one day in anger i said her to leave my home and i dont want to see her ever again. Since then the things have gone on a bottomwards and show no signs of improvement. I need to get her back and avoid the separation, however she has stopped talking or repplying my mails. Please help.
How do I avoid sex with my abusive husband while preparing to secretly divorce? I am fed up with my abusive husband(mainly verbal and mental but has been physical years ago). Even though I'm scared ass hell I am planning to divorce him as soon as I can. My kids and I will move in with my mom until I feel ready to have a place of my own. My problem is that we haven't had sex in about a month and he is getting tired of my excuses. To make it even worse I really want to have sex because I need it too and I don't want to cheat. I think that if we have sex he will go back to thinking that I'm ok and that I want to stay with him and put up with his bullshit. I sometimes find it hard to separate my emotions from sex. I don't want to fall into the trap of thinking things could be better because the sex is really the only good thing between us. I think that is why we are still together to this day. I wonder if it's wrong to have sex with him while I'm here even though I'm going to leave him?
Can an amicus curiae brief be given in a divorce proceeding to expedite a mortgage sale to avoid foreclosure? Specifically what options can a mortgage company have to get the court to hear a motion to force the hand of one party to sign papers to sell a house. There are two parties involved, but one is dragging their feet. There is no disagreement over the validity of the mortgage or that foreclosure is imminent. The stalling party continues to delay the proceedings by switching attorneys and then being granted a continuance. There is a buyer for the house, but needs the signature of both parties to continue. Given that the financial interest of the mortgage company is clear, can they file a AC brief?
can I divorce the wife to avoid paying for her future nursing care? house payed for and nice savings,but dont want to lose it all. We love and live together, but her health is failing.
Regarding divorce with child in Texas, how can I avoid a permanent geographical restriction? My divorce will be final in September. I am here with no family or friends, and it seems clear to me that I will be stuck here by means of a permanent geographical restriction when the divorce is final, something they like to do in Texas, seemingly. How can they force a struggling single mom to stay in the county when her family and support system is in another state? What can I do to avoid it? It would be damaging to my survival to be forced to stay here. Yes, I have a lawyer, and I have not heard anything yet that I've wanted to hear. There must be a way. Note: Our child is 3 years old and father lives here, my entire network of family is in California, where I can also live with my mom for free and raise my daughter in a loving environment. TEXAS is notorious for forcing parents to stay in the same county regardless of the parents situation, like in my case. If I am forced to stay here, then I will be in near poverty living situations, whereas if I can move to California, I have a strong network of family and friends to help me, as well as living with my mother, my daughter's grandmother, in her home, for free. It's how it is in Texas. That is why I am asking for creative solutions. This is a HIGHLY CONTESTED case. He is very jealous, possessive and controlling and will do whatever he can to ruin my life. So far he is getting away with it. He wants full custody, he wants the house, he wants everything, and wants me to suffer, just like that. I have only lived in TX for a year and a half. I am not from here, have no one here. He is someone that cannot comprehend logic, and has no compassion.
can bankruptcy be used to avoid divorce costs?(uk)? Hi,my sisters ex husband is trying to hide his assets from my sis and her kids,post divorce he plans to get false debts,via his biz contacts,file bankruptcy and flee the uk he has a business(she started) and propertys which he has run for years problem free,but since the divorce has left them unpiad so they get repo'ed his plan is too ruin her and have her homeless and wrecked credit can he do this and flee? will the bankruptcy people consider her someone he owes,and pay her at least enough to get a home sorry but im really worried and need some soild info that i can perhaps present to her to make her feel a bit better
I need to find a way to avoid a divorce.? My wife and i have being married for 7 year this month.we have had our ups and downs and lately we have not being able to stop arguing. we have a beautiful 7 month old baby girl. she is the reason why I want to avoid the divorce. However my wife does not. i fear that baby will suffer the results of our decision.. I love my wife to death and i would do anything for her. and i know she loves me too deep in side. even though claims she is falling out of love for me.. she still tells me she loves me.. and that gives me hope.. I do not know what to do. she does not want counseling... but has agreed to it... but she says that she does not think it will help.. What can i do to save my marriage when she some times does not want to? i want to avoid us all three the pain of divorse. any advise will be helpful. We are both christians and belive in the the Lord almighty. And is not overwelmed with the baby, I do help.. I can't be affectionate with her, because she does not want me to or even hug her or kiss her. Bed time is not the same.
I love my husband who hates me and wanted divorce,how to make him happy with me and also avoid divorce? Iam an Indian living in Singapore with myhusband.We are married since 5 yrs.Iam basically shy and reserved person ,dont talk much (which my husband knows b4 marriage)and during the inital stage of marriage we were injoint family with all his family members and he was working for night shifts.so we didnot have much time to spend and talk.immed after marriage i became pregnant,after 2 months of marriage i went to my moms place as i was pregnant,wherein my husband started loving my sister who impressed him a lot.both of them loved each other.i was jealous and also questioned both of them but they said its just we are friends.but now my sister is married and now he tells me that they both loved each other.all these 5 yrs he was good to me too.but now he hates me ,says iam not like her in any way etc.and also wanted divorce.but all these 5 yrs i loved him very much and now i canot forget him and live without him.how to make my husband love me,and forget her.i dont know what he thinks.
how to avoid divorce regardless if other person filed? i have been sick in the hospital and he feels like he failed as a husband and says he don't want it but it has to be done i brought up divorce because i was mad and he ran with it. he said he has to do it but it will hurt him. i told him i don't want it and i think we can work it out or wait till i get out of the hospital then if u want it okay. he says he is stressed with taking care of all the bills and working long hours. but i feel it should happen cause he is not there for me like he should be but i don't want him to go anywhere. we both luv eachother a lot but yet we are not on the same page
Any advice for a couple of 5 years that argues a lot but has a commitment to stay together, to avoid divorce? We are not married yet, I'm just wondering if there's any divorced or married couples with some advice.
How can a married child of divorce avoid holiday conflict? Ok, here's my story. My parents split when I was 16 due to my father having an affair. That was 11 years ago and we're all past that now (mostly). He entered into a long term relationship with "the other woman" immediately after the affair. She and I don't always get along, but we have our good moments and try our best to treat each other with respect. Anyway, now that I'm happily married with a 2 year old daughter, Thanksgiving and Christmas have been pure hell for me. With 3 sets of people (My father, my mother, and my in-laws) wanting my wife, daughter, and me to spend time with them over the holidays, we try very hard to compromise and be fair to everybody. My in-laws(God bless them) are very kind and understanding. My mother is understanding. My dad and his wife...not so much. No matter what I suggest, it's never enough and I get accused of favoring the other sets of family and it inevitably devolves into a huge fight. What can I do to make the holidays fun again? Oh, since some have asked, I'm fortunate enough to live in the same town as all the parties involved. No holiday travel needed (thank God!).
so should we make women financially dependent...to avoid divorce? do women get married to solve financial issues it that their motive?
Is one claims abuse to avoid the separtion period for a divorce, are there legal consequences? We want out now, and have to wait a year. If abuse is involved, you don't have to wait, but does one get arrested? Just thought we could agree to say one is abusing the other, or both of us are just to get it over quicker.
How do I avoid getting screwed in a divorce that I never wanted.? My wife commited adultry but because Im the father and she is the mother and because she is not a abusive or drug addtict mother. The courts in So. Cal looks down on me for custody issues because Im a man. How do I avoid from getting ripped off in my case. Keep in mind Im full Army active duty and she lives in CA and Im in Iraq right now.
My parents are heading toward divorce but want to avoid it, how can I help? I am 17 and a senior in high school. My parents simply aren't loving toward each other.
i love my husband very much but he wants divorce as he loves someone else,how to avoid him from divorcing me? My husband loved someone after our marriage when i was pregnant.mine is early pregnancy and iam basically shy girl which he knows very well before marriage itself.we roamed about before marriage for 4 months during that time he was very good and i also said iam very shy and i dont talk much,for which he didnot say anything.later after marriage he started loving my own sister and she also loved him,now i have 5yrs old boy .they both have been loving for past few yrs and after her marriage she have told him that she didnot love my husband but acted for my sister's sake as i had few problems in my in_laws place.so she have said that she loved him only for my sake that i should be happy. but my husband was in deep love with her,he couldnot tolerate that she didnot love him, so now he have become vexed and he wanted to either divorce me or even he wants to sucide.but all these 5 yrs he was good to me.iam in cricitcal position i love my husband verymuch and i dont want to miss him pls help.
Di you think that because you MARRIED OLD, you would avoid the whole divorce thing? You can see someone who married at 18 throwing in the towel at 38 when the kids are grown. But suppose you married over 35? Did you think that you would stay marrried, beyond that whole "I'm not young anymore, I need to get out now" thing?
What can you do to prevent a spouse from trying to sell the house to avoid me from getting in case of divorce? Spouse thinks he can sell the house because it has his name on it. To prevent me from getting it in case of a divorce. Is there some thing I can do to prevent it?
My boyfriend wants to get a divorce but is trying to avoid lawyer fees? But is there a way out of it and Where does he need to go it might be a little since its a bit complicated Shes an american citizen and he probably is not anymore since he will be divorcing her (Mexican) He lives out here and she lives in Deleware. I know there are forms to fill out and maybe somebody has had to go through this ordeal or knows what to do Thank you
Iam paying a Maintenance of Rs.1500/-pm, now how to avoid interim relief claimed by my wife in divorce petitio I had been paying a maintenance of Rs1500/-pm, since the past 06years, now that i hav filed for a divorce, she is seeking an interim relief, how can i avoid that legally, can u cite any cases in favour of this, and above all this she has also filed cases u/s 498 A and section 4 and 5 of DP act, kindly help me out , since i have to file a counter, on payment of interim relief to her. She is exploring all possible ways of taking money from me, precisely she happens to be my maternal uncle's daughter, and she and her parents wish that i quit from my Fathers place and also get my fathers property transferred on to me and her names.(iam the only male son to my parents) I got married on 21st Feb 2002, and she stayed with me only for 03 months and filed a case as on 03rd Jan 03.
Should I quit side jobs to avoid over-inflated child support before divorce goes thru?? I teach at a public school and hold two other side jobs(after school job & a Sat.job). I've been separated since last July when my wife left me for another man. I refuse to serve her divorce papers (for moral reasons; the marriage vow I made), however, she is prolonging this divorce maybe until summer when her new fiancee gets his own divorce finalled. I decided my two kids will live with them, but I will want joint custody. I'm afraid I will always have to work these three jobs if the child support is based on my income since we were separated. Don't know. And haven't had the time to see a div. attorney. To be nice I have been paying them $800. a month for them to support my kids until the official amount is determined after the divorce. Oh yea, she already knows I have these other jobs. And I live in Nevada if that helps anyone knows Nevada law. (to rockinjellyfish) I'm a school teacher. Her fiancee is a pilot that makes more money than me. Whose not being a man??????????????
When I file for divorce is there any way I can avoid notifying my husband untill it is all over? I am an over the road truck driver and so is he. He has said he is going to pay for it but it seems he can't get out of the red so rather than wait I am going to file as soon as I can save enough. I don't always know exactly where he is and I really would like to get this over without having to worry about giving him notice. He now uses his mom and dad's address but doesn't actually live there. There is no real property involved, no credit cards, and no children. I have caught up the rent without his help, all he is worried about is HIS van payments, which I want no part of and already told him he can have it as long as he takes his name off my truck lease. Other than that what we have as far as personal "junk" won't be argued over, he takes his and I keep mine,I don't want anything from him and vice versa.
i love my husband very much but he wants divorce as he loves someone else,how to avoid him from divorcing me.? My husband loved someone after our marriage when i was pregnant.mine is early pregnancy and iam basically shy girl which he knows very well before marriage itself.we roamed about before marriage for 4 months during that time he was very good and i also said iam very shy and i dont talk much,for which he didnot say anything.later after marriage he started loving my own sister and she also loved him,now i have 5yrs old boy .they both have been loving for past few yrs and after her marriage she have told him that she didnot love my husband but acted for my sister's sake as i had few problems in my in_laws place.so she have said that she loved him only for my sake that i should be happy. but my husband was in deep love with her,he couldnot tolerate that she didnot love him, so now he have become vexed and he wanted to either divorce me or even he wants to sucide.but all these 5 yrs he was good to me.iam in cricitcal position i love my husband verymuch and i dont want to miss him pls help.
Can I avoid getting taxed when I sell my house? My wife and I are getting a divorce. We're selling our house and hope to make a lil over 60K in profit. Of course we're going to split everything 50/50. My wife plans on using her half as a down payment on a house. I plan on using my half to pay off my bills. I have about $24k in bills (yikes). Is there anything I can do to avoid paying taxes on my share? I know I can use it towards my house and avoid getting taxed but then I'm stuck w/ my huge credit card balance. I'm trying to wipe my slate clean. Am I screwed?
How can i avoid having Dirt come out during my divorce? Okay i have been married almost 6 yrs but my 3 yr old son is not my hubbys.My hubby and i were seperated when it happened for 1.5 but hubby chose to overlook that fact sice he had been having an affair and we reconsiled.My hubby signed the birth certificate knowing my son was not his.Neither one of us ever really talked about it afterward.That was till my husband found out my sons father was my married ex.bf's child .He hates my ex.bf and has since highschool. Fights got worse and worse from then on over everything from money to sex.Currently he want air this private info so he wont have to pay child support can he? He hates my ex.bf because he was a bully to him in highschool .My ex. bf has no idea he has a child. he is threatening to name my childs real father!
How do I help my brother who is mentally ill over a divorce and has tried committing suicide? My brother is severely depressed after his divorce. It is very sad because he is 35 years old and has a 16 year old girl and a 11 year old boy. He has turned to drugs and been in and out of rehab 3 times, and attempted suicide twice. Due to his actions, his ex has filed a no contact order which he has broken and is now back in rehab to avoid going to jail. The problem is that I am certain he will try to kill himself again and be successful this time. What is wrong with the system?? He has insurance and each time after attempting suicide, the Psychiatric hospital discharges him after a few days.... Will someone help me before it is too late for him?
can you legally transfer your business to someone to avoid losing 50% from a divorce? my mom is in a bad marriage and she wants to temporary transfer her small business's name to me so that my dad can't get half of the business (I kinda agree...my dad is a good for nothing and didn't help her one bit in starting the business, why should he deserve to get half on a technicality?) I'm relunctant though because I dont know if thats legal or not.
When it comes to a marriage agreement, is it important to mention the debt in order to avoid 50% of it? For example if the husband has a debt (gained either before or after the marriage) and then there's a divorce - would the spouse be obliged to pay 50% of it? And what is the way for me to avoid it? Marriage agreement?
How do I initiate a divorce in Alameda County & should I change title of ownership of my house? I'm looking into divorcing my husband but don't know where to start. Are there any resources that can give you advise on the do's and dont's so that I don't get screwed in the process? Before our marriage I bought a house under my name only, in California how can I avoid it to be community property? I'm planning on refinancing it prior to the divorce so I can get my finances in order and make it on my own. Is there a way that I can transfer title of my home to someone else prior to the divorce so that it isn't considered community property? Another thing, all of "our" assets are under my name because he is here illegally. What rights does he have against the assets? Thanks for reading!!!
Avoiding perjury during Divorce Court proceedings? During my recent divorce, my ex's lawyer asked me if I had entered into the marriage "in good faith". Yet when her client (the ex) was on the stand, she made it a point NOT to ask her the same question so she would not committ perjury. How can she maintain that it was a marriage in good faith, when she maintains that the marriage was OVER after only 9 days, and she refused to tell me or Immigration that months later during her interview for "Conditional Residency Status"?
In a divorce can one partner claim against the other partners "Trust fund" where this was set up to avoid inhe A trust fund set up to avoid inheritance tax.
Gals: How do I avoid the "friend zone"? Especially after getting a divorce.? I am recently divorced (no bitterness or anger between my ex-wife and myself. also we don't have any kids together) I am ready to move on but not yet ready to get in a long term relationship just yet. I recently reconnected with a former co-worker. She's a really cool gal, who I could certainly see myself with in the future. We've hung out one time and there were some sparks. Every couple of weeks since then we have some pretty good flirting sessions every via text messages. Want to go out with her again but don't want to rush into anything too quickly. I don't want her to think I'm desperate. How do I proceed with out her putting me into her "friend zone"? I know she knows that I like her. I'm not in a hurry, but again I don't want to blow any possible future with this gal either. Example of our flirting: The other night I text her to tell her I ran into her identical twin (she isn't a twin). She texted me back "Is she hot.?" I text back "Well she looks like you ...so no :)! She texted me back and told me to ask her so called twin out. I texted her back and said "She's gone now, but since you look just like her, I'll ask you out instead."
Divorce? (Not a "should I get one" question)? No, I'm not going through a divorce. I would like some opinions though, and it refers to divorce in general, not one specific person or couple. Are couples who share in chores, bank accounts, etc more likely to avoid divorce? Any other words, are couples who each do their own laundry, each have their own bank accounts, each have their own bathroom to clean, and each basically only come together and share in dinner more likely to divorce?
Serious about divorce!? My wife wants a divorce from me and I have asked many times that I want to work it out. I have never abused her, never hooked up with another woman. I felt like I have treated her fairly well, even though I felt like I needed help in certain area's. I have told her I can and will change. But she does not care and is addiment about divorce. We are both Christian Believers and I simply want to work it out and avoid divorce.
Gay Marriage = Divorce lawyer employment act? About 50% of marriages end in divorce (highest estimate I've read). Then 50% of them end un-amicably. Why should gays get special rights to avoid divorce court?
Why Divorce ? Is it a remedy.....? Who are responsible, Parents, relatives, children or Society. Any body suggest their valuable views. Whether mediations workout to avoid Divorce cases....
Is it possible to divide marital property without divorce? My husband is in a codependent relationship with his brother, who has issues with gambling and substance, and who has been in and out of prison for the past 6 years. H "detached" from brother and was doing well, but now BIL is out of jail, and I learned from a credit card bill that H had rented a car for BIL for a month and a half on our insurance, using his own license. BIL has a suspended license for DUIs. If there had been an accident where there were injuries or death, we would have been liable, and insurance wouldn't have covered it. We could have lost everything -- house, assets, the works, and with three teens headed for college, it would have been disastrous. I can't believe my husband did this without consulting me, and that he did something that put the family's financial welfare at stake. I can't trust my husband anymore and would like to protect our assets. I would like to avoid divorce for the kids' sake, but is that possible in this case? Thanks for responses so far. To respond to Frank, my H and I separated for 6 months 4 years ago over these issues. At that time, H was pulling money out of bank accounts to bail B out, and another time, pressuring me to take out a Home Equity on our home to save B's house in foreclosure. H did some therapy and recovery for his codependency because he was not "helping" but destroying himself and his own family to enable his brother, and we reconciled with H committing to stop enabling. Now, it is the same cycle over and over again. If H did not learn after a separation, how will he learn if I just sit down and have a "chat" with h im? This has all been tried before, but the pattern is continuing, and now it includes lying to me as well. There will be no college for these 3 kids if an incident like this happens again.
Avoiding Divorce Court? Have you ever come to the point of making a significant and memorible decision to save or strengthen your marriage? If so, what? And what brought this about?
Do most women avoid divorced men who have children living with them? My ex was sleeping with anybody and everybody. Looking for a good godly woman has been tough, and I don't want a repeat of my last marriage.
Who knows about UK divorce law??? I fear I can not avoid the divorce and i married my husband in the UK. We have children and I heard that UK must also divorce us. Is that true or can i also force him to divorce under German law as we live here? And which law is better for the mother??? He is a very cunning and secretive type and I am really scared. Please advise...
When to tell my daughter we are getting a divorce? I split up with my husband over a month ago and we are still living in the same house as he refuses to leave until it is sold. We still have another of couple of weeks work until the house is ready to put on the market, and depending on how long it's on the market for, it could be several months until we actually part ways. Our daughter is five and has already seen more than she should, in terms of nastiness to me from my husband, despite my best efforts. She is a happy and confident little girl who knows she is loved by everyone she meets and although I know I can't avoid the divorce hurting her, I am desperate to ensure I do my absolute best to help get her through it. First of all, I don't know whether it would be best to tell her sooner, so she can get used to the idea, or when we put the house on the market. What do you think? And I just don't know how I'm going to tell her, any useful advice on breaking the news? Thanks I am filing for divorce because my husband has emotionally, verbally and occasionally physically abused me many times in the eight years we've been together. He can also be loving and charming, and a good father which is why I have tried so hard to make my marriage work and why it took him nearly killing both of us when he crashed our car in a rage, for me to realise that his temper was getting worse not better. I love my daughter more than anything in the world and I would not break up her home if I didn't seriously fear for the future and KNOW without any doubt that I cannot stay without accepting abuse, and I am no longer willing to do that. I am already scared that she will think it's ok for Daddies to make Mummies cry by being nasty to them. I just want to be as sensitive to her needs as possible, and I am asking here because I want to cause the least damage possible.
Who usually ask for the divorce, husband or wife? The divorcing woman's dilemma By Linda Stern Sat Jul 22, 8:18 AM ET WASHINGTON (Reuters) - Financial advisers have long noted a fear common among their female clients -- the fear of ending up homeless, penniless, alone, and on the street. It's a fear that stems, at least in part, from the fact that women tend to get poorer when they go through a divorce. Now, many financial advisers are stepping up to help women negotiate those waters. "Divorced women are swelling the poverty rolls," writes Carol Ann Wilson in an article titled "How to Help Older Divorcing Women Avoid The Bag Lady Blues" in the June issue of the Journal of Financial Planning.
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