War on Divorce
What do you think causes people to divorce?
I know some people sometimes just don't get along, but a lot of the times when people hit a certain age, they are bored of what they have and seek something else. In relation to this, why do you think people use divorce as a means of escaping things? I just basically want your thought on why people divorce and what they expect to gain after that stage. Thanx in advance =)
Public Comments
- 1 cause is selfishness.
- Money, Infidelity, Falling out of love, Different goals in life. In my humble opinion, most of these individuals are ill prepared for marriage. How many of them actually discuss their long term plans. Such as number of children, where to live, will mom or dad work if or when children arrive. How much money to contribute to savings. What if one of you plan to go back to college or wants to quit his/her job. These are the type of questions that need to be asked.
- Could be the couple married too soon without exploring their issues. It can happen when two people don't start out as friends, but sex partners. Later thinking that they have something and marry, and then realize that they have issues. People change everyday. If a couple isn't communicating all the time about their life and the changes. Then yes, two people can grow apart. Communicating at least 3 times a day can help prevent this. Mainly making sure that the last conversation of the day is the longest one. Starting out as friends and then letting the relationship develop by accident is the best way to insure a long lasting partnership. However, one has to be always ready for the changes that occur all the time. Ultimately the best laid plans cannot always insure a relationship. It'll always be a risk. The only thing you can really do is study what makes a happy relationship. This will help decrease the chances of finding a bad seed. As you probably have learned by now. There is no guarantee in this life.
- selfishness, unforgiveness, impatience, and the attempt unity of two imperfect people requires strength to keep it together greater than what they have in themselves.
