War on Divorce

What are the main reasons for divorce among young people?

Nowadays, the rate of divorce among the young couples is higher than before in the whole world. from your point of view, what are the reasons that lead to a divorce after a short period of marriage.

Public Comments

1. Most young people are not 'fully' grown (hence the word young) yet and are not ready for marriage. They rush into it and realize too late that they are not ready.
2. They married way too early.
3. lack of maturity and commitment, the there's lack of money. at the 1st sign of "unhappiness" its too easy to run away from marriage.
4. lack of commitment.
5. They married young, when you're young you think differently. Then they grew up and realized that isn't what they wanted and they both changed as people.
6. i think what leads to divorce in young couples is that they find out that they're too young to make a big comitment like that.
7. Women fully mature around ages 24 or 25. Men fully mature around age 30! (statistically speaking) Usually when the female begins maturing fully they grow apart. Another reason is finances. Most young couples try to finish school, work, and pay all the bills. But if one of them has a spending habit and the other is smart enough to realize they dont have the extra cash...Then this causes fights which leads eventually to divorce.
8. 1) Stupidity - they don't understand what they are getting into. 2) Fairy tale thinking - they think they will live happily ever after and when they realize it takes work and occasionally they will piss each other off, they jump ship. 3) Rushing into it - some people are so gungho about getting married they don't take enough time to be sure the person is really the right one for them. 4) Dependence, loneliness, and lack of self respect - too many people get married because they are lonely, have no self respect, or are too dependent on other people so they take the first one that comes along who will marry them. When they realize the relationship sucks they either stay in it and are miserable or get a divorce then go do the same thing with someone else unless they bother to deal with their issues.
9. Marrying young has no impact on how long the marriage will last. I got married when I was 16 (not pregnant) and this is our 10th anniversary. The main reason why marriages fail is because they want different things out of life, they have different goals, or one person gave up what they wanted to do for the other and they now resent that person. I think that it is funny how so many people blamed it on them being young. I know that young marriages fail more now but that is because of society. It used to be taboo to get a divorce, you stood by your husband no matter what and now too many people just quit. When you get married you are supposed to stand by that person in the good times and the bad.
10. to big of a hurry to go nowhere wanting to play grown up and not having a clue
11. Immaturity, money issues, infidelity, disrespectful behavior. Jeez I could go on and on.