War on Divorce

How to avoid divorce?

How to avoid divorce if we have differences on how to educate our kids and house keep?

Public Comments

1. Sit down and compromise. It's a huge part of marriage.
2. learn to communicate. Work on it, it is not easy.
3. thats hard you just have to talk about things, communicate..... TALK to her come to an aggreement... good luck
4. These issues should have been discussed long before you were ever married!! In the mean time maybe you two can come to a common ground on some thing that you can both deal with, while everyone ends up happy!!
5. There's some great books on this subject. You may want to read books by John Gottman (especially Seven Principles of a Happy Marriage) or Divorce Busting by Michelle Weiner Davis (I believe that's her name). You may also want to go to marriage counseling. In general, try to take breaks when discussion gets too heated. Also try your best to disagree without blaming or criticizing the other person. Think about what you can and can't compromise about and make the areas that you can compromise about as large as possible. I wish you all the best!
6. discuss everything without raising voices, accusing, blaming. compromise. each of you must give a little. weigh the pros and cons of each issue. good luck
7. Every marriage has good and bads ups and downs. Meet some where in the middle it could be worse you could be fighting about someone cheating lets face it no one is a perfect match we are all going to have differences its how you as a person handles them. No matter who you are with you are not always going to agree compromise that's all. The kids will be alright no matter what education you decide for them. keep the house in the middle don't expect to much especially if she taking care of the kids its harder than it looks. Good Luck
8. Compromise. Go to counselling together and find ways to work out your differences.
9. help w/ the house (women find that sexy) and soon she will compromise w/ the kids
10. you can always just talk . or go to marriage counseling
11. find a compromise tha will make you both happy. other wise you are sunk.
12. don't get married, then you won't get divorced
13. you should of had this conversation before marriage dingbat!
14. Compromise. Go to marriage counseling, it worked for my family.