War on Divorce

are most men after a divorce financially busted or even bankrupt? If so, why?

Public Comments

1. cause a lot of porr guys get divorced
2. Because the women get the upperhand with any court. Men are always stuck with her legal fees and alimony. WOMEN ARE NOT REALLY EQUALS.
3. the ex wife wants to make sure that they cant afford another exwife
4. yep I think so. We carry a lot of debt. The child support is the main reason. Plus to get out and date we need pay. most of our ex's get the child support and use it to pay their own bills. Then when they go out wu=on dates the divorced men pay again. thats the divorced mans curse.
5. I'm going through a divorce right now. I am giving her $2000 a month, even though I only make $2200 from my job. Guess what? I now have two jobs, one to support her and one to keep me alive.
6. yes the are because most women take the man for EVERYTHING
7. Honestly, I think the first wives take em to the cleaners. Child support, alimony, attorney fees, you name it.
8. In the case of my ex-husband.. I'll be surprised if he's not swimming in debt, but continuing to live "sumptiously" in order to seem fine. He was all about the money and his job. Always wanted the new toys. Word is once he sold our house (which he did not come out good one) he got an apartment again. Then, he bought a new Pontiac G6(which he already is making nearly $400 payments on the Grand Prix). Then he also sold his motorcycle (Suzuki Katana 600) and upgraded to a Suzuki Hybusa. There's no way he's living comfortably. I know his paycheck, and I know what rent is like in that area. And that's without having to pay me a dime. In the divorce settlement he gave me just under $1000. I also got a dish set and our dog. That's all. He wanted to be single and not have to answer to anyone. Sobeit. I hope it comes back to bite him in his butt... I love it:)!
9. No, but they will proclaim to be if there are kids involved in the divorce or they have to pay any type of monies to the ex wife.