War on Divorce

If you are divorcing and are dating someone (not the reason for the divorce) until the court date,?

does the no good asshole I'm divorcing have the right to give me a hard time? I know it's not good, but can he bust my ass legally? the marriage has been over for at least 7 years, but you the old saying, something like, you don't want it, but you don't want anyone else to have it either?

Public Comments

1. Dating - no problem... HOWEVER, if you are sleeping with the other guy prior to the divorce being finalized, he can theoretically bring it up in a court, as in many cases the court looks at this as committing adultry.
2. no, he should move on, he has separation madness!
3. If you have filed for legal seperation that means you have basically filed a temp restraining order to keep your distance from each other, he has no right to interfer or restrict or in anyway intrude on your life while you 2 are in the process of the divorce. If he does come around and in anyway treatens you than you can file for an actual restraining order. If you live in a no fault state no matter who you see or what you do with them is not allowed as an issue in the divorce.
4. If you are already in the process of getting a divorce, and are no longer legally living together, no, he cannot give you a hard time. If he persist, go to your local law enforcement office and take out a restraining order on him, to keep him away from you.
5. keep your but out of bed now is not the time after Court OK
6. screw him do your thang girl you are not dead everybody needs love he didnt give it to you and somebody else has he needs to see that you are somebody to somebody, so screw him do your thang BE LOVED!!!
7. you need to wait until the divorce is final to date other people can cause problems for you
8. If you have filed for divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences, the divorce is uncontested by your estranged husband (meaning you're not living together) and you are not subjecting your children to your new partner at this point then he can bytch all he wants but ultimately it will have no affect on the final outcome as far as the courts are concerned. If he is harassing you over this then he in fact could be making his situation worse. Best advice though would be to keep your new relationship to a mutually acceptable minimum of contact in public places and without exposure to the children until the divorce is final. If you have an attorney then you might want to seek his counsel on the issue as well.
9. Come join my group for support in this type of an issue.