War on Divorce
wuts the worst thing my mom can do.. plz help u guys this is rele important to me?
okay.. my parents have been divorced for a few years now and after there divorce i got myself into a lotta trouble when i was 13.. and ive been back and forth with my mom and dad.. and when i got in big trouble i got busted at my dads.. so they made me move back in wit my mom that was 7 mons ago.. i now my mom is a newlywed i hate my step dad.. i hate the way they treat.. me .. my mom is brainwashed and all us kids kno us. its like i ahve to fight for attention and i ahte it. now ive been at my dads for 4 weeks and i cant go back. .yeah my dad drinks.. but he can control it... and so does my mom she just odesnt admit it.. my bro and my dad live here.. my dad has bad hours but someones alwaies here.. plz people help if i call my mom and tell her im not coming home wuts the worst thing she can do?? may i say.. that my mom is not the same mom i used to have.. she dresses talk and acts like shes a teenager.. sometimes i feel like im the mom. may i also say.. ive cleaned my act back up.. i got off everything.. and im rele doing good...now i just feel like if my mom makes me move its gonna go back to where it was..
Public Comments
- Call the cops probably. However, if you say you want to stay with your dad, you must talk to the judge.
- You sound like a very ungrateful kid. Take it from someone who doesn't have parent any longer. Don't take your parents for granted and stay in school!!!
- well if she has custody she can call the cops and make you come home. why don't you try talking to her on the phone and explaining, calmly and maturely, why you don't feel comfortable going back with her? tell her you feel more welcome at your dad's plus there's always someone there for you. just explain how you feel. try not to be so hard on her and her new husband too - i know it's difficult for you, but maybe it's not as bad as it seems. they're newlyweds so of course things will be different at least for awhile - not that she should neglect you or anything, but she also deserves a life of her own with the husband she's chosen. at any rate, if you explain why you'd rather stay at your dad's maybe you can make a compromise - it's worth a shot. best of luck.
- The worst she can do is make you come back. I wouldnt worry about it. You sound like a real mess by the way. Your life doesnt have to be so tumultuous and I think you need a trusted adult you can talk to that isnt going to punish you or yell at you. When school starts back up please talk to your school counselor about all the trouble you get in and how you feel. I just hate to see you mess up your life with so much trouble before youre even grown.
- So you want to stay with your Dad? What's the problem? Are you afraid of hurting your Mom's feelings (your picking one parent over the other)? You are too young to have such stress. You need to focus on your future. You are not going to change your Mom or your Dad's behaviour. Work on your own. Find something productive to do, and I hope your staying out of the trouble phase. You sound like an intelligent young lady. Divorce sucks for everyone, but don't be a victim. Your parent's are surviving they best way they know how (they're human and not perfect), and you need to cut yourself a break.
- You are in a very hard situation. My mom thru my dad out when I was 14. I was angry at her even tho she had good reason. My father was a big time alchoholic. My dad got sober, but then died at a young age. I have come to forgive both my mom and dad. I have a pretty good (but not perfect) relationship with my mom. I began smoking weed and drinking to kill my pain. It didn't work that well and got me in alot of trouble. I have clean and sober for about two years now. I pray when I am hurting. Believe it or not it helps. It sucks that we sometimes have to be more mature than our parents, but I really think it makes us stronger persons and maybe we won't make the same mistakes they did. I pray and hope that u will find some kind of peace. God Bless you and good luck.
- oh lady.i am really sorry to hear this.wanna help you.first i suggest you to be strong.but not so much.cuz you may lose both your dad and mom.however they must learn that you are not a thing that they can move everywhere.You are an adult(15 is enough to be an adult) and you have your own ideas and you can decide what to do. then what can your mom do worst. you say she acts like a new person.your ex mom has gone. may be your ex mom was really unhappy with her life and he created a new charecter. The most important thing is that your mom loves you or not. if she does you may tell her to understand u and respect you. if she does not it may cause some problems. a legal trouble.also your dad may be in trouble, too. and errr ıııh i see your dad in your myspace and he looks like really friendly and ... i dont know.... he is like a good person as you said... i wish i could help you much more. good luck lady
