War on Divorce
Need Dating tips after a divorce?
Okay, Am back in the dating world after a divorce and am hoping that some women can give me some tips. Had a great first date the other night. How long to I hold off before calling her to see about getting together again?
Public Comments
- just take it easy, take your time make sure they are who u want to be with. and never talk trash about your ex.
- How about staying away from games...please, please, please. Lame! "how long do I wait...crap." How about call her when you want to call her. As long as it isn't every five minutes or for two months when there is never an answer. The next day, call her, tell her you had a great time and is she available for next Friday for dinner...whatever. Don't do the dating game crap. Just go with the flow and have fun. If she's not digging on you, then she's not the one for you...simple as that.
- There are no rules. If you want to see her again, call her.
- Just a couple a nights and call and see how she is doing. Just don't be to pushy.
- being in the dating world again myself after a divorce......i think its great that you are dating again. some people have said to me, "ughhh....i would never want to go thru all of that again." But i think its fun and exciting. so good luck to ya. anyhow, if you guys had a good time i think you should give her a call the next day. You dont necessarily have to make plans for the next date, but just call her and tell her hi. it would make me feel special. and im sure it would for her too.
- I don't know. Maybe about long enough for the ink to dry on your divorce papers. Sucker. Heading for a fall again I see and in short order as well.
- I would say, if you are interested, don't wait more than three days to call her. Also, take it slow...start out as friends. (e.g. no sex or making out or tongue kissing!!) until you know you're really interested in this person. Rushing into something could be a big mistake and will turn you off of dating right away.
- I would say just be yourself. Do what you feel like doing. If you feel like calling, then pick up the phone, if not, don't! You're bound to make mistakes, but that's part of the fun and at least you're not compromising on who you are. ;-)
