Background: Indian. Divorced 4 years ago. Lived with her never. Marriage started in separation on 1994 when I was 25. Divorce happened in 2005. No kids. Very expensive. Very unfortunate. Lots of regrets. Salaried and earning 1.8 lacs per month. No girl friend. Substantial 2 crores bank balance and a house worth similar figure. Looks: Athletic with a slight paunch. (Exercising to get rid of it) Planning to start life again. Don't fancy girls over 27 years. Am however 38. But don't care. I am attracted to girls who are around 25. Want to grow old with someone but want to start her at that age. Hobbies: Art, poetry Planning to find a girl. Need tips. I don't believe in bar/pub hopping. Just want some real romance. Want someone to Love me truly. (will never disclose who I am in yahoo answers, so I am not bragging. Nothing to brag about.) Just realized that I too deserve life. Some tips I got so far: 1. Dont tell the girls about money else will land the girl who only wants money. 2. Be happy, positive, 3. Pull her leg without being derogatory How do I start? How to meet? Any tips? Not interested in sleaze. Just interested to know how best to run into a 25 yr old girl who will take on a 38 yr old guy who likes poetry and art? (Lets assume I have lost my paunch in 1 months time) k d. good point. Now tell me what will still make any girl fall for such a guy? dont want the girl to lower her standards, yet she must be hot for this 38 yr old guy. What must the guy do? Guess its really dumb like u said.